What should i do if my family keeps telling me that military life is not fot me, but it's my dream?
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I'm an Italian boy that loves the military and dreams to join the italian army, and then, become part of Italian special forces. But my family told me that i'm not made for this because of my behavior with them. I'm starting to think that maybe they're right, what should i do?
Lorenzo S. asked a question to Shaun M.
Category: Work Life Balance
Date asked: Wednesday, April 30, 2025
Last reviewed: Friday, May 16, 2025
Shaun M.
Team Leader (Cpl)
Lorenzo!
You’re not alone—many soldiers, myself included, came from backgrounds where people doubted us. Some of us had challenging behaviour as civilians, but that doesn’t mean you can’t succeed in the military.
The Army isn’t just about discipline—it teaches discipline, along with respect, integrity, loyality and commitment. If this is truly your dream, then don’t let past mistakes or outside opinions stop you. The military helps people grow into the best version of themselves, and countless soldiers have proven that with the right mindset, anything is possible.
Your family may just be worried—but often, that worry comes from love. If you stay focused, committed, and show them your determination, you might just change their minds by proving them wrong in the best way possible
GOOD LUCK!
Friday, May 16, 2025