my bf is in the reserves atm but once back from tour is planning on going regs-RA , as am I-REME, can we live together?

Hi! Thanks for your question. You’ve asked this in the HR, Finance and Support Insiders section. This is something that you’d have to ask through your Chain of Command, as you have to submit eligibility paperwork and there also has to be a house available on the ‘patch’, as married personnel are given housing first then if people within relationships/partnerships want to apply for a house, they come second. Hope this helps!

Hi thanks for the reply. As we’d both be regulars we’d be based in different places. Is there something they could do? Or would we stay separate until we get married?

Hey! If your both close enough then you’d have to decide which ‘patch’ you’d want to live at, being if there are any spare houses though. If not, then you’d probably have to live separately. Hope this helps!

That’s exactly what I needed. Thank you Holly!